Improve your mother-daughter relationship with one powerful practice

Honestly, I did not plan on putting myself on the hot seat with a clinically-trained doctor in psychology. But in the midst of recording our podcast, I dove personally into my own mother-daughter relationship. The conversation we had was remarkable. She taught me how to improve my mother-daughter relationship with one powerful practice.

This is a must-listen podcast with Dr. Michelle Deering, a licensed clinical psychologist, board-certified sport psychologist, and mother-daughter relationship consultant who encourages, empowers, and equips women to connect intentionally so they can improve relationally. Her best-selling book is a fantastic read called “What Mothers Never Tell Their Daughters.” You can download the first chapter of her book at her website. See the notes below to connect with Dr. Deering.

But first, you must listen to the podcast to learn one powerful practice you can put into action immediately:

I met Dr. Michelle Deering in the midst of the quarantine for COVID-19 in the early summer of 2020. I was browsing social media looking for like-minded moms who desire to give mothers and daughters the best future. I’m here to testify that nothing can stop the power of friendship. That’s right, not even COVID.

Improving, restoring and reviving your mother-daughter relationship is key to every facet of your life, according to Dr. Deering. If you want to see success in all areas of your life, including your work life and family relationships, focusing on the mother-daughter relationship is key to improving everything else.

The main focus of her podcast called “The Mom Stops Here Show” is dedicated to moms and daughters to:

  • educate them about the impact of their mother-daughter relationship
  • equip them with strategic tools for communication, and
  • empower them to pause & consider their feelings, thoughts, and behaviors so that they can make intentional choices in their interactions with each other.

Here’s how to connect with Dr. Michelle Deering. Give her a big virtual hug from me and tell her I sent you to connect.

 

Michelle Deering and Jody Token

Next steps to connect with Dr. Deering

And while you are out there listening to podcasts, please click on The Great Flip Podcast wherever you listen and be sure to like it, review it, subscribe to it, and give it a five-star rating. I truly appreciate it!

 

The Great Flip, online self-defense, safety and empowerment for girls

And speaking of improving your mother-daughter relationship, welcome to The Great Flip, online self-defense, safety and empowerment platform for girls ages six and up (that includes you too mom!). If you are looking for a fun, playful, and empowering activity to do with your daughter, then you’ve come to the right place.
Here’s how it works:
First, request a free online self-defense video from me (Coach Jody).
You will learn powerful life skills with your daughter at home, at school and after school using my online videos and avoid the germy gym.
If you’d like to give your daughter confidence and courage while you maintain control of a positive and affordable experience, I’m honored to have you visit my website and resources.
Next Steps:
Enroll
Train
About Coach Jody
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Jody Token, a certified Brazilian jiu-jitsu instructor and national girl-ministry influencer, intends to turn girl power upside down, equip girls to overcome fear with faith and sneak in a few super-power ninja skills.

Before launching The Great Flip, an online self-defense and life skills platform for ages six and up, Coach Jody served as the national marketing director at American Heritage Girls, a Christ-centered character and leadership development program for girls 5 to 18 years of age. Jody’s two daughters (Megan and Jessica) and husband (Kevin), inspired her to develop an online self-defense experience to gain a basic understanding of self-defense, avoid the stinky gym, and improve overall health and wellness. The Great Flip online videos and curriculum are used at home, at school, and afterschool nationwide. Discover your inner ninja at her podcast and website, The Great Flip. See you on the mat! – Coach Jody

The Great Flip is an American Heritage Girls national program alliance!

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American Heritage Girls train like a U.S. military hero

Now you can train like a U.S. military hero with The Great Flip and American Heritage Girls (AHG).

For AHG’s U.S. Military Heroes Event, I gave their members a glimpse of the hard, physical work it takes to train like a U.S. military hero. I interviewed my pastor who is a former marine. I featured a recent West Pointe graduate who took us through an Army-style workout! This video is a family-friendly activity great for all ages … just like The Great Flip!

Ready to train? Let’s do it:

The Great Flip is an AHG national program alliance. AHG families and troops subscribe to online self-defense training videos at The Great Flip and receive these benefits:

  • Earn the AHG Martial Arts Sports Pin
  • Earn the self-defense requirements of the Pi/Pa Emergency Preparedness Badge
  • Earn The Great Flip Patch

To learn more about this relationship and enroll in The Great Flip program, click here.

American Heritage Girls (AHG) is a faith-based character development program for all girls 5 – 18 years of age. AHG is dedicated to the mission of building women of integrity through service to God, family, community, and country. With an emphasis on Christian values and family involvement, girls participate in badge programs, service projects, leadership opportunities, and outdoor experiences.

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The Great Flip is online self-defense, safety and faith-based empowerment for girls age six and up.

The videos are fun, playful and empowering.

Families and educators use the online videos and curriculum at home, school and after school.

Request a free online self-defense video

In three easy steps, you can train with Coach Jody:

Choose an online self-defense plan.

Enroll.

Train.

See you on the mat! – Coach Jody

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Hey, American Heritage Girls! Earn the Martial Arts Sports Pin here!

Hi, American Heritage Girls!

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I’m Coach Jody and I‘m here to help you earn the AHG Martial Arts Sports Pin using my online self-defense training videos at The Great Flip. 

The Great Flip is inspired by the martial art called Brazilian jiu-jitsu (BJJ). Among all the martial arts, BJJ is considered one of the best to learn because of its application to self-defense training, especially for girls and smaller-framed people. 

You can earn the Martial Arts Sports Pin by studying and practicing the martial art Brazilian jiu-jitsu, also referred to as BJJ. There are a few requirements you will need to research on your own, but the majority of this sports pin can be achieved with a membership to The Great Flip. 

What you will need to earn the Martial Arts Sports Pin using The Great Flip:

  1. The AHG Martial Arts Sports Pin in your AHG Handbook. I’m using the new 2020 requirements.
  2. The PDF document, “Earn the Martial Arts Sports Pin with The Great Flip.” (Included in every membership plan.)
  3. Membership Plan with The Great Flip. The Empowered Subscription Plan, Strong Purchase Plan, or any of the curriculum plans.
  4. Internet connection to stream the videos from Vimeo.com.
  5. Wear comfortable exercise clothes and create a designated training space with mats (interlocking mats, gymnastics mats or martial arts mats.) Here is my workout space at home: https://vimeo.com/289726478 
  6. A training partner.

 

About Coach Jody, certified Brazilian jiu-jitsu instructor Gracie Barra

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I, Coach Jody, trained and received my certification through the Gracie Barra BJJ worldwide community of schools. They exemplify a “jiu-jitsu for everyone” mindset. 

I am currently a purple belt (you’ll learn more about the belt system later). Their training and certification process is rigorous and has a direct lineage to the Gracie family. 

I created The Great Flip as a pathway and introduction to BJJ. If you decide to visit a BJJ gym, I recommend visiting a Gracie Barra Academy. My program at The Great Flip will prepare you for your BJJ journey. 

 

 

Are you ready to earn the Martial Arts Sports Pin using The Great Flip online self-defense program? 

  1. Choose an online program
  2. Enroll
  3. Train!

Have questions? Contact Coach Jody at jody@thegreatflip.com

Request a free video.

Learn more about American Heritage Girls and The Great Flip here. 

Order The Great Flip Patch for a job well done!

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My Anti-Bully Ebook

Bullies don’t social distance. You need My Anti-Bully Ebook!

Long before COVID-19 and social distancing was a thing, bullies roamed the school hallways. They still do!

The Great Flip Anti-bully ebook has been revised to empower you and your daughter for social distancing and bullies. Your daughter will learn how to use her voice, her body, and her distance to overcome bullies and guard against germs (and bullies with germs 😂).

The Great Flip offers faith over fear empowerment from the outside, in!

Outcome.

The Anti-Bully ebook will help tween and teen girls identify forms of bullying and give her the tools she needs to change the bully culture engaging her whole self; body, mind, and spirit.

The Great Flip Anti-Bully Ebook features:

  • A Bully Inventory
  • Self-Awareness Q&A
  • Biblical Empowerment
  • Role-Playing
  • Self-Defense Physical Activities
  • Social Distancing Health and Safety Tips
  • Two Online Self-defense Video Techniques
    • The Wrist Escape Video
    • The Push Kick Video

Only $9.99 for a downloadable PDF interactive ebook

Click here to download My Anti-Bully Ebook

“The Great Flip online self-defense videos and curriculum are fun, playful, and empowering.” – mother of daughters

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New to The Great Flip? Welcome!

The Great Flip is an online self-defense, safety and empowerment website featuring self-defense videos and curriculum for ages six and up. Families and educators use online self-defense resources at home, at school and after school.  To learn more about The Great Flip and it’s founder and coach, Jody Token, click here! See you on the mat! – Coach Jody

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The Great Flip is an American Heritage Girls national program alliance.

 

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Five ways to fund online curriculum

This blog is intended for Christian educators seeking to fund online curriculum in their school, homeschool co-op, P.E. class, and after-school program. Feel free to share with those seeking an online curriculum like mine at The Great Flip. In this blog, you will learn five ways to fund online curriculum. 

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I know COVID-19 is first and foremost on your priority list. The health and safety of your school community are of utmost importance. At the same time, you are tasked with providing an excellent academic experience to address the whole child; body, mind, and spirit.

Online learning must play an important role in your curriculum planning and it must be flexible enough to use at school and at home, if necessary. The Great Flip online self-defense curriculum is designed to meet these needs.

After speaking with principals, parents, and teachers, I have gathered five ways to fund an online curriculum like mine, and other back-to-school needs.

These educators understand the value-added benefits The Great Flip online self-defense program offers. Here are a few of the ideas schools are developing to make the most of my online curriculum:

  • My program gets students moving and active which improves physical and mental health.
  • The self-defense skills give students, parents, and teachers the opportunity to talk about the fears children are experiencing and apply faith in tangible ways. Bullies and bad guys don’t social distance. Students will learn how to apply confidence and courage to every situation.

    6th grader at St. John Lutheran in Ellisville, MO

  • Adding a self-defense unit to your Physical Education (P.E.) class allows all children to enjoy P.E. class, not just the athletic kids. (Read my blog called “Top three reasons kids don’t like P.E. class”)
  • Adding my program gives you another opportunity to talk about health and safety concerning social distancing, germs, and physical safety.
  • The Great Flip program can be used across ministries including youth events, family nights and PTO functions.
  • Use The Great Flip as an after-school program/club.
  • Use The Great Flip as a community event and a public outreach teaching kids about bully prevention and self-defense skills.
  • If schools must go through yet another quarantine and stay-in-place procedures, my online curriculum can be shared with school families.
  • Bonus: I will offer free virtual meetings to those who enroll in my online curriculum plans.

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I imagine more innovative ways will emerge from The Great Flip. Keep the ideas coming and I’ll be sure to share with everyone!

Five ways to fund an online curriculum from The Great Flip

  1. Seek a private donor to “gift” curriculum and school supplies. A mom in Nebraska will be “gifting” her school with my online curriculum. Great idea, mom! Do you know a parent, grandparent, or alumni who would be willing to financially support the school? The price range of my online curriculum is the perfect price point for an individual to “gift.”
  2. Ask your PTO, sports association, and nonprofits to fund The Great Flip online curriculum. 
  3. Seek Federal Grants that specify health and safety for children and the community. My friends at the Lutheran Elementary School Association (LESA) recommend researching opportunities available to your school through Title IV. The Great Flip online curriculum can be used in school and after-school to meet your students’ needs, including anti-bullying activities, health, safety, and nutritional resources.
  4. Seek Thrivent Action Teams Grants. Is anyone on your staff or in your school a member of Thrivent Financial? As a Benefit member, you may qualify for $250 to lead a fundraiser, service activity, or educational event in your school and community. The Great Flip can be utilized as an educational event and community event. Here’s a link to the Thrivent Action Teams  information https://www.thrivent.com/what-we-offer/generosity/thrivent-action-teams.html 
  5. Good ole fashion fundraisers to raise money for school supplies and my online curriculum. Get innovative and set up a GoFundMe page for your school or specific cause. 

How are you finding funds? I’m sure other like-minded folks will want to know. Have these ideas been helpful? Let me know how I can support your educational goals. Contact Coach Jody

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Here are a few pictures for students watching my videos and utilizing The Great Flip at a local YMCA, at an LCMS school, at an after-school program, and at home!

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A solution to the annoying headlock

My daughter and I are practicing the headlock escape for my online self-defense videos. I think she’s enjoying it a little too much. It’s okay to smile, giggle and laugh when you learn.

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There’s no reason to create anxiety and fear when teaching self-defense skills to children, especially if they have been victimized and bullied.

If you are a subscriber, I just added two self-defense videos to your membership featuring headlock escapes from standing and on the ground.

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Not a member? Join now!

If you are not a subscriber but want to teach your children, age six and up, self-defense skills that are fun, playful and empowering, it’s easy to sign up at my website. My online self-defense videos and curriculum are ideal for home, school, after school, and church youth programming.

Enroll in the subscription plan

It’s that easy.

Have a question or comment before you sign up? Contact me.

Want a free video to review? Request your free video. 

It’s not too late to add self-defense training to your summer camp. Live or virtual.

I have everything you need to teach self-defense at home, school, after-school clubs and church youth programming, including lesson plans and talking points. Check out the curriculum options.

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See you on the mat! – Coach Jody

The Great Flip is a national program alliance for American Heritage Girls! 

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Learn self-defense at home

COVID19 Stay-At-Home ready! Who knew online self-defense would become more important than ever. Families and teachers are seeking wholesome, instructional and educational online curriculum. The Great Flip online self-defense is for everyone, ages six and up, inspired by the martial art Brazilian jiu-jitsu, safety and empowerment.

In this blog, you will learn how to set up a training space at home. The Great Flip is designed to be fun, playful and empowering. Each video inspires confidence and courage while you maintain a safe and controlled environment. Let’s get started!

Reasons to learn self-defense at home:

  • Increase your child’s confidence and courage in a controlled environment.
  • Avoid the germy gym.
  • Prep for a martial arts academy experience.
  • Introduce your children to the martial art Brazilian jiu-jitsu in a safe, positive and affordable environment.

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Create an exercise area at home. Watch this short video and watch Coach Jody set up her training space.

Oh, and yes, distractions happen. Meet my dog, Brandy.

Now, let’s make your equipment list:

You!

Duh. I cannot wait to see you on the mat! You will be so happy you are learning a new life skill in the privacy of your home.

A training buddy

Grab a family member and/or group of friends. There are a several solo-drills and techniques, but most of the videos require a training partner. Plus, training with family and friends is fun! Go get your training buddy!

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Soft training space

Before you start training, I recommend setting up a designated training space that’s soft. Yoga mats, beach towels and even the carpet is better than the hard floor. The best option would be mats.  As you saw in the video, I bought the interlocking mats . These are reasonably priced and have multi-functions. The folding gymnastic mats are nice too. You can get fancy and buy jiu-jitsu/MMA mats, but that is not necessary. Bottom line, set-up a training space big enough for two people to train. I started with a 4×6 space and I just doubled it to have a little more room. I use the interlocking mats. I recommend the 8×12 space so two people can comfortably perform all the techniques.

I bought my mats on Amazon. The mats come in a 4×6 package for $20. So I spent$40. Share the price with your training buddies! Or, ask your school, church or fitness center if you can borrow mats! Be sure to keep them clean with disinfect wipes or spray before and after use.

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Comfortable Clothes

You don’t have to buy fancy work-out clothes, but wear clothes you can comfortably move around in while standing and while moving on the ground.

No shoes

I prefer to train without shoes. Typically, I’m on an exercise or yoga mat which needs to stay clean. I don’t wear shoes or socks. Plus, wearing socks can be slippery. Training in bare feet will keep your training space clean, strengthen your feet and encourage better balance.

Hair bands

Yes girls, please pull your hair back into a pony tail or whatever you prefer. When your hair is up and out of your face, you can see better and train better. And when you work with a partner, you are less likely to accidentally pull each other’s hair.

A teachable spirit

I’ll be honest, when I started learning jiu-jitsu, I walked off the mat several times completely frustrated.

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The techniques look so simple and easy, yet I was unable to do them right away. The techniques take practice. Be patient with yourself. The online instructional videos are designed to be watched repeatedly. And you can watch and practice from the comfort of your own home and training space until you master the technique.

I remember going to a one-day self-defense workshop and learning a million cool techniques. But when I got home to share my new knowledge, everything was mixed up or had vanished from my brain. I had not practiced enough to create the muscle memory. BJJ techniques are simple but requires practice.  This is just like any other sport. You can’t expect to hit a three-pointer in basketball or pitch the perfect strike in softball without practice. Come to the mat with a good attitude, willingness to learn, discipline to practice … and you will succeed!

That’s it! Gather yourself, your positive attitude, friends and a soft place to train. See you on the mat!

Remember to tell me about your training space! Send me an email to jody@thegreatflip.com or follow me on Instagram @thegreatflip and use hashtag #thegreatflip in your posts!

Three easy steps to begin your online self-defense training experience.

  1. Choose a training experience.👈
  2. Enroll.
  3. Train.

See you on the mat! – Coach Jody

The Great Flip is a national program partner for American Heritage Girls!

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Fun, playful and empowering online self-defense

“Fun, playful and empowering; Great for the whole family!”

This is how a parent described The Great Flip online self-defense videos. 

And this is exactly my hope for you and your family. I want the training experience to be empowering, of course, but also playful and fun. Self-defense training doesn’t need to be any scarier than the topic usually is for kids. Learning skills in a playful way can make the topic of self-defense easier to talk about with your family.

This is achieved in my step-by-step streaming self-defense videos suitable for ages six and up. 

Each video is three minutes or less and you will learn one empowering technique. I also have solo conditioning drills and “social-distancing” approved videos too. These videos will introduce you to the martial art called Brazilian jiu-jitsu and complement your fitness goals. Oh, don’t have any fitness goals?  … well, now you do! 😍

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And while we are all at home quarantined due to COVID19, learning self-defense skills is a fun and meaningful family activity.

Give your kids confidence and courage while you maintain a controlled environment. You will discover meaningful time together learning these skills and talking about the value of these skills as you deem appropriate for your family.

And when you subscribe, I’ll teach you how to set up a safe place to train in your home (so you don’t knock over the lamp or hurt yourself). See you on the mat! – Coach Jody

 

Choose a plan and let’s get started!

 

 

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“Will my students be karate-chopping each other?” and five Q&A about the self-defense curriculum

In a recent radio interview, I was asked five questions about The Great Flip self-defense curriculum (the second question is definitely my favorite):

  • Can children really defend themselves?
  • After learning the techniques, will students be karate-chopping each other all the time?
  • How can a school implement the curriculum?
  • Does the teacher need to have martial arts experience to offer The Great Flip curriculum?
  • What age is the program intended for?

#1. Can children really defend themselves?

When we think of self-defense we tend to think of hitting back. However, I believe learning self-defense is more than a physical action or reaction. Self-defense training begins long before something physical happens. It begins with learning to be aware of your surroundings. It means understanding your personal space. Self-defense is learning how to use your voice to establish boundaries and communicate intentions. And self-defense training means learning physical movements and techniques that prepare children to defend themselves. Children can definitely learn to defend themselves.

#2. After learning the techniques, will my students be karate-chopping each other all the time?

This is my favorite question, because it addresses the personality of a child’s and teacher’s perception of a self-defense class. The last thing teachers want in their PE class is a bunch of wild ninja’s running around. But in all honesty, when students come to class be prepared for the inner ninjas to emerge! However, you will have the opportunity to share The Great Flip approach! Students will be introduced to the martial art called Brazilian jiu-jitsu (Bjj) … where there is no striking or hitting allowed. Bjj addresses situations and strategies on the ground, which is where 80 percent of fights land. And Bjj empowers smaller framed people to defend themselves using leveraging and technique not force and aggression.

The Great Flip Approach. The Great Flip self-defense curriculum is a non-combative approach to self defense. The student will not be taught to strike, kick or use aggression or force. They will learn distance management, situational awareness, punch protection and techniques to de-escalate and escape situations. They will learn discipline, teamwork and trust. Jiu-jitsu is a grappling sport which means many movements are happening on the ground. Students will be challenged mentally and physically while learning foundational Bjj movements to build confidence and courage while the teacher maintains control of a safe experience.

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#3. How can a school implement The Great Flip self-defense curriculum?

The primary use of the self-defense curriculum is in PE class. The techniques are progressive in nature. The curriculum is designed to grow with your students from first-grader through 12th grade. The self-defense curriculum includes everything you need:

  • A total of 32 videos 
  • Online Curriculum PDF 
  • Eight Lesson Plans PDF 
  • Eight Talking Points PDF 
  • Class Structure Video 
  • Warm-up Exercises Video 
  • Stretches Video 
  • Animal-inspired Conditioning Drills Video 
  • Jiu-jitsu-inspired Games Video 
  • 20 Self-Defense Technique Videos 
  • Seven Bonus Self-Defense Technique Videos 
  • A total of 27 Self-Defense Technique Videos 

And something fun is happening! Now after-school programmers and youth directors are taking advantage of the self-defense curriculum. Anyone who wants to build confidence and courage in children is using the curriculum, including:

  • Students, parents, administrators, educators and programmers 
  • Private and parochial school athletic directors and physical education instructors 
  • After-school programmers 
  • Self-defense and martial arts program directors, coaches & instructors 
  • Homeschool educators 
  • Youth & children’s program directors and instructors 
  • Retreat and team-building programmers 
  • Director of Christian Educators (DCE) and church youth leaders 
  • Older students may use curriculum (with adult supervision) for leadership development 

#4. Does the teacher need to have martial arts experience to offer The Great Flip curriculum?

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No experience necessary! Every segment of the self-defense curriculum is broken down into easy to understand parts including videos, lesson plans, and talking points. Anyone can teach this curriculum. And I, Coach Jody, offer professional support along the way! Simply call, Skype or Zoom and/or I’ll come to visit your location to help, based on location and availability. 

Request your sample curriculum, lesson plan, and free video.

#5. What age is the program intended for?

The Great Flip self-defense curriculum is for 1st – 12th grade … and mom and dad too! I love challenging the students to go home and teach their parents these valuable life skills (and no karate-chopping!) 😍

Let’s get started. Learn more and enroll.

 

Testimonial from St. John Lutheran School, Ellisville:

St. John School in Ellisville 6th graders warming up for self-defense PE class.

My sixth graders look forward to P.E. class during the self-defense unit. The videos are easy to follow and the students quickly picked up on the techniques. They definitely grew in confidence learning these skills.” 

– Bob Duebberke, Athletic Director/P.E. Teacher, St. John Lutheran School, Ellisville, Missouri

 

Testimonial from Immanuel Lutheran St. Charles:

 

What is The Great Flip?

Martin Luther, the great reformer, referred to the gospel as The Great Exchange. I call it The Great Flip.

“For our sake he made him (Jesus) to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.”

Through my instructional videos and online resources, you will experience great flips engaging your body, mind, and spirit!

See you on the mat! – Coach Jody

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The Great Flip was featured in Great Day St. Louis

Thank you Laura and Matt for the opportunity to share self-defense skills on your FB live segment. #GDSTL

The Great Flip’s Coach and Founder Jody Token was featured on KMOV-TV morning show Great Day St. Louis. She shared simple self-defense skills and techniques. Watch the news segment here from the media page.

Enjoy the “after-the-show” Facebook live segment below:

Now you can learn these skills and more. Three simple steps to get started.

  1. Choose your self-defense videos.
  2. Enroll.
  3. Train.